Montana Elliot Levy and I crossed paths in college through our mutual friend Jack Greenleaf. We started collaborating on musical pieces as part of Jack’s music project called Sharpless. But we didn’t just stop there.
We also developed a friendship through our love for Cuban sandwiches, often enjoying them for lunch once a week. College may be a distant memory for us now, but I’ll never forget the ridiculous and memorable nights we spent partying like only people in their early 20s can. It’s funny how little moments and people can have such a significant impact on our lives.
She was a true Jersey girl who embodied every characteristic typically associated with women from the Garden State. She was bold, unapologetic, and spoke her mind without hesitation. Her fashion sense matched her personality. Her outfits were aggressive and made a statement wherever she went.
Montana’s love for music was equally memorable; she was a true Bruce Springsteen fan who fully embraced the Boss’s music. Her taste in music extended beyond Springsteen, as she became a champion of Lady Gaga, Gwen Stefani, Amy Winehouse, and Haim. Montana’s love for Haim was infectious, making “Falling” and “The Wire” must-play songs for any party she attended.
Montana Elliot levy Career & Death
She was known for her spectacular singing ability, making everyone else’s attempts seem like mere lock picks. With her voice, she could kick down doors and leave audiences in awe. But her talent went beyond her singing.
Montana, who recently passed away, was also known for her masterful skills in organization, planning, and communication. She built daily rituals during the lockdown that kept us all connected and grounded.
Despite her busy schedule, she made time for multiple group chats and seemed to have endless love for her many friends. Montana was a true gem, and her loss will be felt deeply. Throughout the decade I knew her, she always set aside time for herself.
What is her Hobby?
Over the years, she discovered new passions and hobbies to enjoy, including baking and photography. She also found a love for SoulCycle, which she took very seriously and was always eager to talk about with her friends.
In one of our last conversations, she emphasized how taking care of our physical health could greatly benefit our mental well-being. She even invited me to join her for a cycle class, but unfortunately, I never got around to it. Despite her busy schedule, she never neglected the importance of self-care and taking time for herself.
Time is a precious thing we cannot reclaim once it has passed. As we reflect on our past, we may all have moments of regret where we wish we had done or said something differently.
In this case, the author wishes they had joined their friend and her partner in returning to New York, allowing them to remain close in Sharpless. The friend’s passion for tennis could have been explored further, as the author had only been a casual fan.
Plans to catch up, indulge in expensive meals, and share laughs were also missed opportunities. However, the most significant regret was the failure to tell the friend how cool they were. It’s a reminder to take advantage of the present and speak kind words to those around us.
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A letter on loss and friendship
The last few days have been a blur for me. I’ve been struggling with waves of emotion, ranging from heightened numbness to sharp pangs of sadness. Losing someone close to you is never easy, and I’m just beginning to accept that fact.
I consider myself fortunate to have made it this far in life without experiencing such a traumatic loss. However, I also recognize that life has a way of reminding us of its unpredictable nature. In some ways, these emotions are new to me, but in others, they remind me of the importance of holding onto the people we love while we can.
The past few days have left me feeling like I exist in a separate universe from the rest of the world. I can’t help but notice the stark contrast between the intense emotions and heaviness weighing on my heart and the seemingly unaffected demeanor of strangers passing by me on the street.
As I walk to grab lunch, I can’t help but anticipate the embrace of empathy and togetherness that one would expect after a national tragedy. But it never arrives. Instead, I’m left feeling isolated in my grief. The anticipation leading up to my loved one’s funeral is compounded by the shock that her name isn’t plastered all over social media.
It seems surreal that something that feels so massive to me isn’t the sole subject of conversation everywhere. Yet, here I am, navigating these tumultuous waters of loss and wishing for a semblance of understanding from the world around me.
How did her friend feel about her passing?
The passing of a loved one can be incredibly painful and isolating. However, having a robust support system can lessen the blow if one is fortunate enough. Montana was lucky to have many people in her life who loved her and, in turn, loved Montana; when news of her death spread, the outpouring of love and support was overwhelming.
People from all walks shared their fondest memories and celebrated her life. The community came together to honor her and comfort each other in their shared grief. The power of connection, of sharing stories and memories, should not be underestimated. It can make a world of difference to someone who is hurting.
It’s essential to take a moment and express your appreciation for the people in your life who matter most. It can be as simple as sending a quick message to let someone know you’re thinking of them or picking up the phone for a catch-up chat.
When was the last time you sat down and cooked for someone special? Preparing a meal and sharing it with loved ones is a beautiful way to connect and show your affection. And if you’re looking to let off some steam, blast your favorite tunes and sing along at the top of your lungs.